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沟通中,倾听他人的情绪并不意味着要为其负责,理解这一点有助于减少误解和防御心理。收入的增长虽然短期内改善生活质量,但长期财富的积累需要时间和智慧的投资决策。未满足的情感需求可能导致个人野心或讨好他人的行为,理解沟通中的误解模式有助于改善人际关系。线性思维简化了人际互动,容易导致关系的恶化和问题的无解。
沟通、情绪与人际关系——读书笔记2025年第30周
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幸福者退让

“幸福者退让”原则提倡在资源有限的情况下,生活更幸福的人应主动让步,以促进公平和社会和谐,但不应在核心利益受到侵犯时放弃原则。在多轮博弈中,适度反制是必要的,而熟人关系应通过对话解决分歧,避免一方过度退让。
幸福者退让
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岳父

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岳父

Misgambling Compulsion

Misgambling compulsion is a psychological bias that drives individuals to gamble despite negative consequences, influenced by cognitive biases like the deprival super-reaction syndrome and variable reinforcement. Emotional states such as stress and social factors can exacerbate this compulsion, leading to severe personal consequences, including financial ruin and relationship issues. Understanding these mechanisms is essential for addressing gambling disorders and developing effective treatments.
Misgambling Compulsion

郭兆凡:聊聊幸福感和长期主义

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郭兆凡:聊聊幸福感和长期主义

"The Psychology of Human Misjudgment" by Charlie Munger

Charlie Munger discusses various psychological tendencies that influence human behavior, emphasizing the dangers of undue respect for authority, the prevalence of twaddle, and the importance of clear reasoning in communication. He highlights the "Lollapalooza Tendency," where multiple psychological factors converge to create extreme outcomes, and reflects on the implications of these tendencies in real-world scenarios, such as corporate decision-making and social psychology. Munger advocates for a deeper understanding of these tendencies to improve decision-making and avoid disasters, while acknowledging the moral complexities involved in applying psychological knowledge.
"The Psychology of Human Misjudgment" by Charlie Munger

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文章探讨了谦虚和好奇的重要性,强调谦虚意味着意识到自身知识的局限,乐于承认不知道,并愿意在新事实出现时改变观点;好奇则是对新信息保持开放,积极寻求理解与学习。作者认为这两者能够帮助人们更清晰地认识现实,避免思维陷阱,类似于乔布斯所说的“保持愚蠢,保持渴望”。
谦虚和好奇